How Did You Meet?
Diana: “We first crossed paths at a queer party in March 2014, both freshly single. I noticed Lorena from across the room—she was following a friend outside. When our eyes met, she instantly turned around, walked straight up to me, and extended her hand. She simply said, ‘Hi, I’m Lorena.’ I introduced myself, and then she went outside for a cigarette. A mutual friend of ours was also outside and overheard Lorena and her friends talking about me. Later, they invited them over to my apartment after the bar. We soon realized we had several mutual friends and started seeing each other more frequently over the next few months. Fast forward to May, and we were both in Miami at the same time. After a night out together, Lorena decided to change her flight and stay with me. From that point on, she became a permanent part of my life and my friend group. That Pride season, we were inseparable. Lorena later told me she had never walked up to anyone and introduced herself like that before, but I’m so glad she did!”
When Did You Know This Was Special?
Lorena: “It’s hard to pinpoint a single moment. We took things slow at first, casually dating while recovering from long-term relationships. Over time, I realized that Diana was the one I wanted to spend my life with. She’s always encouraged me to be myself, pursue my dreams, and has stood by me with unwavering support.”
Diana: “There wasn’t a specific moment either, but trust for me is built through consistency. It was the way Lorena carried herself every day, showing up for those she loved, being fair, honest, and showing integrity in all she did. Once I saw these traits in her, I knew I could open up to her and share my life.”
What’s Happened Since?
Lorena: “We moved in together in 2016, two years into our relationship. I proposed to Diana that same year at a bar in Montauk, NY. Our life has been a beautiful ride. I’ve asked her to marry me more times than I can count—always in unexpected places—and she’s always said ‘yes!’ We haven’t gotten married yet, but we’ll get there. Diana had a sweet Sheltie named Charlie when I met her, and in 2017, we adopted Frankie, his very energetic brother. In 2020, we welcomed Sammie, a gorgeous Bengal cat, into our home, completing our little fur family. The five of us now live in a cozy one-bedroom loft in Toronto, and there’s never a dull moment in our home.”
What Do You Love Most About Your Partner?
Lorena: “Diana is pure magic. She’s the most generous, magnetic, and kind-hearted person I’ve ever met. She always sees the good in people and goes out of her way to make sure everyone around her feels valued and cared for. Her selfless love has been incredibly transformative for me.”
Diana: “Lorena has this calm, quiet confidence that centers me. When I’m stressed or uncertain, she always knows how to bring me back to my center. We also share a love for adventure, and she’s always up for my spontaneous travel plans and wild ideas. We’ve created so many unforgettable memories together, and I know there’s so much more to come.”
Your Best Relationship Advice?
Lorena: “I’ve learned that everyone gives and receives love differently. Loving Diana has been about the little things—those small, everyday moments that add up. Whether it’s a quick kiss between Zoom calls, taking a walk to the Toronto Islands with our dog Frankie, or knowing where she left her keys—those small acts of love are what make our relationship so special. Real love isn’t in grand gestures, but in the little, everyday moments that show you care.”
Diana: “One of the best examples of love I saw growing up was my grandparents, Nonno Domenico and Nonna Lina. They lived with us, and I remember watching them spend hours together in silence, just enjoying each other’s presence. My grandfather once shared the secret to their happy marriage with me: ‘Il bene,’ or ‘the goodness.’ He explained that you can’t demand love or respect through harsh words or actions. When the goodness is gone, it’s hard to get it back. He taught me that relationships are fragile, and it’s important to be kind and loving, especially during conflict. Even when Lorena and I argue, I make sure to add her to my Uber Eats order to show that I care.”
Conclusion:
Diana and Lorena’s relationship is a beautiful example of love built on trust, mutual support, and the little things that make each day special. Over the years, their bond has grown through shared adventures, personal growth, and a deep understanding of one another’s needs. Their love story is a reminder that true intimacy is about connection, kindness, and making sure your partner feels cherished, even in the midst of life’s challenges.